Yes, I know it is way after the whole Tiger Wood's fiasco, that is partly why this is so fucked up, I'm five months late getting my post up -- I usually don't have any trouble getting it up, but Holidays, work, life -- it is a miracle anything can get written and even more of a miracle if anything can get read, so if you are reading, a hearty thank you.
I listen to Susie Bright's Audible show weekly and have a strong affinity for her work, although my point of divergence with her usually revolves around gender. The hetero male psyche sometimes seems a little beyond her grasp. I appreciate and enjoy feminism, but the respect for gender differences and strengths should cross gender boundaries.
Case in point is Susie's formerly recent audio show and subsequent blog post on cuckold fantasies, tangentially related to a fantasy Tiger Woods apparently sent a mistress about him finding her banging Derek Jeter, shortstop for the Yankees, and David Boreanaz, some actor I don't even know. When I first saw Tiger splayed across the tabloids, reveling in bad sexual puns like I do, I immediately started thinking of all the corny things I could say like, "Tiger isn't satisfied unless he is playing at least 18 holes," but golf/sex puns are so old as to become as stale as the beer most golfers drink.
Several different reasons have been given for why men have cuckold fantasies in the audio show and blog -- submissive fantasies, homoerotic fantasies, eroticization of the jealousy defense mechanism,
I've seen some of the "Fuck My Wife" videos and they pretty much leave me cold. I have no erotic fantasy to be humiliated -- that sucks.
A true sports fantasy is to dominate other males. Never having been on top of my game like Tiger -- Ok, sorry about that pun -- but if you are beating everyone's ass -- Ok, sorry about that pun -- but if you dominate everyone you play with -- Damn it, have you ever noticed how Sports talk is Sex talk? Women think that men's interest in sports is a distraction from them, but from the guys point of view it is his sexual obsession that drives him to sports.
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